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Sunday, June 28, 2015

Vision and Trust: External and Internal Leadership

Fred Wilson recently wrote a post where he defined leadership as this:
It is charisma, it is strength, it is communication, it is vision, it is listening, it is being there, it is calm, it is connecting, it is trust, faith, and belief
Trust, faith, and belief. These are all words for the same thing, right? Well, not exactly.

I have observed that many leaders, especially the ones called visionary, are often evaluated in the court of public opinion on the following subset of those qualities:

Charisma, strength, communication, vision, connecting, faith, and belief

Listen to them talk to a crowd and they will blow you away with the clarity and strength of their vision, with their ability to connect with their customer. This in turn translates to a level of faith in that vision and belief in the overall direction that they are guiding their company towards. Awesome. Literally, awe-inspiring to witness. These are the public qualities of leadership that show up in the media, that the whole company can see in an all-hands, that you can see firsthand when they speak at a conference. These are the qualities that the board members see, that the venture capitalists invest in, and it is pretty hard to get into the position of successful startup founder without them.

So where do the rest come in? Listening, being there, calm, trust. These qualities are more difficult to evaluate based on an interview or a presentation, these are the “internal” signs of leadership.

Trust is a contract between two people. You are constantly creating and building trust in a long-term relationship with everyone around you. When you listen, and are there for people, and are calm when interacting with them, you build trust. But without that listening, without “being there” in a way that lets people feel the ground beneath their feet, without calm, trust is fragile or non-existent. Trust is regularly tested and negotiated based on our ability to show up. I would say that these more private qualities, these relationship qualities, are the qualities of management that every great leader must possess. Managers know the value of steadiness, of showing up for that 1-1 every week, of reacting slowly and listening to the people around them.

So even great external-facing leaders need some management skills. What about the managers?

Managers fail when they lack communication, connecting, and strength. A manager who can’t communicate with their team cannot execute effectively. A great manager connects with their employees as human beings (without turning into full-time therapist), and has the strength to shoulder the challenges of making hard calls in the trenches with their teams, the firings, the resignations, the projects being cut and the delivery or missing of deadlines. The day-to-day pains are very real for the manager and without strength it is almost impossible to do the job well.

But what about vision? We think that vision is the realm of the strategist, but vision also has a place in the manager's skill set. Instead of business strategy or architectural future, the manager’s vision sees what their organization looks like in 2 years, what their team can grow to be capable of accomplishing, what the successful day to day looks and feels like for the employees on their team.

As a final data point, my former CTO coach and one of his partners wrote about the Management/Leadership split in their new version of The Art Of Scalability, excerpted here. Between these three sentiments, perhaps you can triangulate your own path to being a great leader who manages enough, a great manager who leads enough, or whatever the situation calls for.

Tuesday, June 2, 2015

The Trials and Temptations of the New Leader: "Cool Factor"

Being a new leader at a startup is hard for many reasons. You think you're good at a lot of things, only to discover that you're not. You were fooled by success gained inside of a company with hidden structures that helped you succeed, the invisible backpack of big(ger) company privilege.

One very common area of weakness is recruiting. When I started to lead engineering at Rent the Runway I fancied myself pretty good at recruiting. After all I had done it well in prior gigs, I was friendly and engaging in interviews, so I'd be fine! Of course I quickly realized that startup recruiting is enormously different than at a company with a whole recruiting department sourcing candidates, making sure the process goes relatively smoothly, and of course, paying them fat industry++ salaries. Outside of this structure you experience a world where you reach out to so many people and get nothing but silence, blank stares, or polite dismissals. Your CEO tells you that you've gotta sell, and asks for your sales pitch. And often, faced with a string of failures and pressure to grow, you land on the need to do something "cool" with technology to up your "cool factor."

You know what I mean. Chase the buzzwords: microservices, Go, big data, event-driven, reactive, functional, etc etc etc. The only way engineers will want to come work for me on my relatively straight-forward application development is if I give them the carrot of Cool New Technology!

I have learned a few things over the years, and one of those things is that usually engineers that are only interested in Cool New Technology are not going to stick with your Boring Business Problem for long enough to be worthwhile, or worse, they'll stick with it long enough to leave a trail of one-off solutions that no one else on the team understands before they walk away and leave you holding the bag.

If you're tempted to reach for Cool Tech, then I'm going to guess that you're not at a company where the primary challenge is purely technical or scaling. Instead, the interesting problem that your company is solving is almost certainly a combination of a) figuring out how your business, possibly the first of its kind, is going to survive, and b) growing, changing, and evolving to create a functioning organization. Once your company is successful, many of the problems that seemed trivial become surprisingly challenging to solve at scale, but in the early days oversolving with cool tech only leads to distraction from tackling the real challenges.

So resist the urge to adopt any technology for the cool factor of recruiting. Instead, look for people who want to own big parts of the system, who are interested in the business, who are really passionate about the customers you're serving, who are looking for leadership opportunities. Don't undersell the opportunity you have just because it isn't Cool New Technology. Be honest with yourself about the real problems that make you excited about the business that you're in, and that's where you'll find your best sales pitch.